Friday, 22 May 2015

Young Parents

Hey guys, welcome back to my parenting blog..

Today I'm going to discuss on a topic that I'm ask most of the time..
As you all know that we're on our way to having a second baby so after our experience with Jaymie in our life, we realize that becoming young parents are actually a lot of fun than what most people say and worry about. The feeling after the first baby is like having the same exam but with an increase level and an deeper desire to make things better...
So lets roll!

Young Parents...

Why is it such a big deal? I can't really get it but that's how people really responds...hahaxD
Maybe adults just have the concept of believing that kids like us just aren't ready for this world..
So..It happens when we're pregnant with Jaymie and now after when Jaymie was born.
Usually when were out with my wife and Jaymie people usually ask..
"How both of you, so young can raise a child like Jaymie?"
People these days simply has the mindset of believing that young parents are always in difficulties in raising babies these days. 
So kind of limiting belief most motivation leaders these days trying to help people to overcome. 

But in fact, young parents in these days are growing in quite a number but what surprises me at the same time is the abortion number as well. And most of it that go on to abortion is simply they did not know what to do which is quite normal and some are actually feeling too ashamed under the eye sight of the society..
How sad to know that..

But the fact is, in this world today there are millions of us who are not only young yet has already made a fortune and too married with kids as well..

That's why I've decide to write something about this topic..
If you're a teen or young adult like me thinking of whether you should start your family or thinking of Abortion (especially!) bare with me just for another a minute or 2...

Whats is it like to be Young Parents?

Well young parents are just parents and we're just younger...hahaXD
We're aren't any stupid kids who play around and got child like most adults think in their minds..
In fact we are even better than any other adults because we're willing to accept the responsibility of baring a child.
Most adults these days especially those are willing to married but aren't really willing to bare a child because they are just too afraid of the responsibility to take care of a baby.
A study made in US shows that there's only 17% of total out of 1000 women who did abortion are teenagers whereas the rest are actually adults that are more older and mature.. 
Click link below to see the study..
So fellow young parents, be proud of yourself that you are willing to pay your responsibility for your kids and spouse..

Young Parents makes better parents as Well..

Well, base on what we see these day, this has becomes truth...
Why? Take this article for example, how many adult are really putting their pride off to listen to a young adult like me?

Most adults these days are just following Taboos and old fashion wisdom to take care of their child.
Don't get me wrong, I love to study all these taboos on line but what i really means is that what they had in mind is just too limited.
Great thing about young parents is that we had a virgin mind that allows us to passionately crave to know more in our area or region. There's nothing wrong with Taboos but instead of sticking with one Taboo we search for the other literary 10-50 or as much we can find online to better understand or support them.

And the second thing is we are more daring to try new things and remedies which are more on healthy and natural. Lets take goat milk for example, when we went for the baby shop to get our goat milk the ones that allows their babies to fed on goat milk were literary all young parents like us that reads blogs and article online before deciding to do so.  

Young Parents = More FUN!!

You probably get the idea by now..
Because we are young we are more interacted with games and fun. That makes us fun parents too. When I went to the clinic every time all i can see was adults with their eyes on their phone and what worse was the young one too have their eyes on one. Speaking of childhood is this the best you could do?

As for Jaymie, yes she loves to look at the i pad some time but when she's out its all about discovery, and the best part we too turn ourselves into babies. Young parents seems to have no pride at all when we're with our baby. We go around, we see all the poster here and there and all the toys on the pediatric clinic and some times we just tickles each other up and have a great laugh while waiting for the check-up... hahaxD 

Just remember to wash your hands and take a bath immediately home after your discovery or bring her to the washrooms for a hand wash. They simply love to play with water.

Young Parents love to cook different cuisines..

One thing we hate the most these days is babies could only have porridge as their solid food. The Chinese traditional way is always pork and rice. Enough of that old way, Why? 
#1 Pork is not as healthy as you think
#2 Rice makes your baby constipate AKA Hard Stools..

We love to cook recipes and purees online ever since Jaymie started to take solid food at  5 months old. We started with organic brown rice at first then fruit purees which she enjoys the most and different types of omelettes, then cheese and chicken soups and purees. She just can't get enough of it but do follow the guideline below in cast she had an allergic problems.

Like Jaymie she can't have too much of carrots and potato when she was young because it just make her constipate most of the time. But after 1 year old things seems to get better. So please be careful when feeding your baby. 
Investigate and always try things out...

Young Parents went Insane on medication info

Last of all, young parent are always cautious on what medications being fed on their baby.
Most adults believes that when the child is sick, just fed them some medications.
This has been on like a trend or bad habit for parents to adopt these day.
The reason is they simply wanted the child to heal up faster so that they don't have to waste time taking care of them and some just want their baby to go to bed so that they can go back to work.

For me and Ruby when its about antibiotics and sick symptom we read every thesis and review i could find online. Antibiotics and sick symptoms seems to be a big deals for us. The reason is we all know there a lot of side effects on medication like resistance and stomach upset AKA G.I. on antibiotic,

And its literary not necessary in most scenario.
And medications seems to stun your babies growth as well. So always try out home remedies instead if its not very serious like a mild fever which babies usually have.

And always consult a doctor for medication implementation even if its just ibuprofen or paracetamol so that you don't overdose your baby.

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Thursday, 14 May 2015

Our New Member!

Hey guys, we went for our check out today...
We were actually planning to do it next week but we woke up this morning too excited to wait for it so without further ado here's our new family member...

We went for a check up at the nearby private Hospt. so that we dont need to wait for it this morning...
Lucky there we we're the first to be here so we get to meet the doctor right away we reach there...

Never realize there's heartbeat at this early age before..
At least I learn something new today..hahaXD 

Thank God...Everything is fine for now we did both ultra sound on the belly and through the vag..
As usual Ruby needs to take a 5mg of folic acid supplement a day which we already taking it ever since we did realize Ruby is pregnant after we test it with the tester right before we sees the doctor..

The Truth about Folic Acid  
It only works best before you are pregnant and during the first few weeks of pregnancy..
After that i will not help much and actually does cause constipation for some pregnant ladies.... 
If you're pregnant right now and your taking folic acid that has been causing constipation try to have folic acid from food instead of pills.
Its going to work much more better..

Here's Jaymie and her mom during lunch at Subway...
She love it since she never tried it before..hahaXD
Its an amazing day for us today....

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Wednesday, 13 May 2015

Parenting Change with a 2nd Baby

Hey guys, how you'all doing? Hope you all be doing great..

So finally after me and Ruby has been discussing about a second baby so that Jaymie won't can have a brother or sister to play with and BOOM! A miracle just happen this mothers day and Ruby is pregnant again...Yeah!
But we'll give it a double confirm on a doctors checkup next week..

What we feel about a second baby?

We haven't felt so much joy and happiness even though we are always happy and joy thanks to our Baby Jaymie..hahaXD

Of course for the chinese there's a old Taboo thing that you can't tell anybody about you're pregnant for the first stage but it does't matter to us because I believe God is with us and he shall guide and give protect upon our baby.

So we really took this a great blessing from God Himself. And today we kinda went out for a celebration here you can see me, Ruby and Jaymie are having Japanese food today...Yeah..
It was a wonderful meal.... We had Age Dashi Tofu and some Sushi.. And its Jaymie's first time on Sushi...
Jaymie is sharing a bento with her mum in the photo so excited of her to try out new things...hahaxD
Today was an Amazing day...

So today I'll be sharing on whats going to be like when you're expecting your second pregnancy...

Morning Sickness

One thing for sure we are already suffering is a more intense nausea or morning sickness which we wake up every morning feeling really bad about it...
And sometimes it just hits you in the midnight as well..
Even I'm involve because of the hormonal changes in the mother's body the father will gets morning sickness too as well...
When we we're pregnant on Jaymie I get a little bit too but this time it gets worse..
Hope its gonna turn out to be a boy or maybe twins which i'm kinda expecting it...
But Ruby just wants another girl so that 3 of them can enjoy bath time together..

Changed in appetite

A super charged appetite is another thing..
I'm still normal with that part cause I'm not really affecting much of the appetite but for Ruby she eats a lot and drinks a lot...
Especially in the night she will crave over a lot of types of food...HahaXD
Spicy food or even chicken wings..
So I'll need to run around to get them for her...
I'm not sure about other women but she told me that she can actually smells the food that she craves for....

Relationship closer

For many couples, young couples especially that we read through they actually kinda struggle when they hits the other baby. They might worry about sex or financial status but for us sex we always has a way to settle it and as for finance, yes we din have really a lot but some how we just know there has to be a way to go through all these because we had none when we had Jaymie and life was tougher so for the coming on its going to bring me into a newer challenge in life.
One thing youth parents have is energy, we tend to believe we can achieve most things if you're reading this and you're a part of youth parents all I could say is never ever ever give up on yourself because we are meant to create miracles,
Don't give up you won't regret it when you sees your baby given birth and the first touching was amazing. And it always the adversity that makes you cherish your partner and child much more than other people..
When we got our child most people even ask us to abandon it but Me an Ruby we conscious and we strive through it and here we are happily with Jaymie.

Say Your Prayers

It doesn't really matter if you're a single mother or you're facing any difficulty with your pregnancy or some of you were just teenagers which I've seen many you are not alone and God is here with you..
Thank God for your blessing. Every child is a blessing from god make sure you thank God for that..
And be sure that you ask for this guidance and protection.
We are only mere humans and what we can do are really much of a limit sometime but with his love and guidance you'll be invincible trust me.
We've through the Journey and we know much more about how it feels especially when you're pregnant and you became more aware of whats around and ,more sensitive about the people views and opinion.
Talk to Him and even ask for his guidance..
Things will change...

So that's all for today..
Stay tuned for more blogs on parenting and pregnancy guide as well..
Happy Motherhood for all those mothers out there..

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Saturday, 9 May 2015

Marriage Life Lessons

Hey guys, thanks for all your support, i got quite a lot of impressions and comment from my post on Google+...

You guys really inspires me a lot to write out good content.
And last night a lady asked me an amazing question, she asked that whether i can live without a women and my answer is no...I can't..

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Some men may find it disgrace but for me I felt love when I'm thinking about the answers in my mind. I gave her an example on sex.

Saying that we're all equal, just like man can't expect himself to have premature ejaculation neither do the women. If guy makes her orgasm, she'll go all the way and make him orgasm as a favor.
So as our marriage life..

If you love your wife, takes good care of her, she takes good care of you too...
Here's the difference...!
Does it mean you have to treat her like a Queen? Yes!
But as a favor she'll crown you TWICE as her King forever...

No one can stands alone in a marriage...

One thing i really can't agree with marriage is the men has to lead the way in the family...
Trust me men, eventually you lead no way with this TABOO....

In our marriage life I'm thankful that god allows me to fall in love with a women that has a good patients but not a good temper. Well I have a good temper, most men has one but they just never let go of their pride when they wrong. Apologize with my lady used to be a hard thing to do.

But God humbles me with her temper and allows me to learn how to love a woman by simply letting go of what he hates the most which is our pride in every man. Be honest with me guys, how many times that if we would just let go of our pride and simply talk to her when she's angry and sad about you? Maybe that's why god made Eve as Adam's helper in the first place.

I believe so as my lady. Ever since I'd learn to let go of my pride, her temper improves. Whenever an argue comes into our marriage we kinda able to solve things out talking about our feeling and cares about each other. By the end of the day that's all we wanted..

Being able Love and Care for each other is an priceless lesson that learns only from experience and letting go of our pride..

So I believe in every marriage non of us is perfect we all need each other and that is what makes us a family. Expressing honesty upon our love ones is an amazing

A wise man once said "Our life is a mirror of our inner world, It reflects everything. So as our marriage!"
Hope you'll enjoy your marriage life as well..=)

That's all for today! Happy Mother's day!

Dedicated to my Queen:
"Thank you for everything Darling, I Love you So much and even more in our coming days...Happy Mother's Day"

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Tuesday, 5 May 2015

Whats Satisfies Us Parents

Having my time teaching Jaymie reading today, well she can't read well yet except for bubba and mama...but still I enjoy that..hahaXD

So hey guys, how you'all doing?
Hope that you all been enjoying your parenting journey..
I actually finds it very funny to write this post cause most of the things that satisfies me in taking care of my sweetie are kinda weird..hahaXD
Or maybe its what most parents do...

A good nice poop in the potty?

Bam!! I believe this is only what parents will understand that. My sister can't understand that at all since she didn't had any baby yet. I thought i was the weirdo until i went on the internet and forum and I found out that there's actually thousands of parents were trying hard on making their baby on potty train too. What does pooping in the potty so exciting about. Its exciting cause it means you're baby is finally growing up..hahaxD  We only succeed for once but it feels like a....Yeah!!

Buba in the morning!!

U just cant wait to hear the first buba in the morning..
Owh!! that work 10x better than self affirmation...
The moment they open their bed and climb down from their bed for a hug worth more than a million...
Sometime she just sits on my face..hahaxD
But you'll get the point..


It might be an turn off for most parents but guess what its the most time your baby need you the most.
I know you get all the crying and stuff but you get all the hugs and appreciation from your baby too! Just like us even for adults, everyone need a somebody around even if its just sitting there looking at each others.


I don't know how many of you have the old fashion breakfast together but in our home we practice sits together and and says our prayers. I doesn't works at start cause baby won't have enough patient to wait for us to finish the prayer to have her omelette but after sometimes she did get used to it..
But she does get upsets when I hold mommy's hands..hahaxD

Nap time ..hahaXD

She whimps a lot but when she sleeps she looks exactly like a angel!! My wife caught this when we're having our nap in the living room..

That's all for today! Happy Mother's day! Its on the coming Week!

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Selfies of My Queen Ruby and Princess Jaymie!

Saturday, 2 May 2015

Facts that show Women are Amazing!!

Hi, everybody Happy Mother's day!!
*Note : Mother's day is coming so please don't forget to celebrate it on the Sunday after on 10/5/2015.
Either you're a husband with a wife or a son with your lovely mom or an unmarried guy with a girl friend I'm here to tell you that Women are amazing cherish them and love them.

A wise men once told me that "The men can be the head but guess who's the neck? Women!"
*HAHAXD...Funny yet profound..

Throughout century of human evolution, the value of women has always been misunderstood and also because of porn polluted mind of men in some countries they even treat women like dirt with sexual violence taking religious as a weapon instead of a believe of love and peace.
Hate to spoil the pride of men but check this out!

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Why are Women so Amazing

Women are meant to be treated Equal & Respected..

It all started in the story Adam and Eve. 
The first women was made out of a rib Adam that God testify the imperfection of men and women are meant to be one for perfection.
Which men or women they both share the same status yet men did not lost a rib forever yet have the same number of rib which say both husbands and wife deserve respect between each other.
Then again God made women helper of men.
For men don't get excited yet because in the bible also said we must serve before we could lead.
If women was to made to serve men so does women is made to lead men.
Just like the story of head and neck it may seems like the head is in charge but the neck is the one who decides when and where to twist and turns.

Women Leads the Family..

Thank god so much for bringing me such a wonderful wife as well.
Other than the bible our life journey also tell us how amazing women's are.
Its time for dad to give up on the tyranny position, you can't live better without your lady...
Most people doesn't realize that how powerful their mother is these days.
Women has always lead the family ever since.
Imagine how would it be like without having a women in the house to lead.
Remember who's the one that are always by our side in the family when we're sick, unhappy, bullied and in pain. Mom!
Lovely hugs and kisses we that brings so much joy to our childhood that most of us forgotten.
Without them, you'll have to eat chickens that came in boxes everyday, Soups that came in cans. Clothes re-wear until your dad has time to do the laundry once a week. Empty fridge when your sneaking for snacks.
Husbands goes to work with wrinkles on their shirts.
Men will all be trapped outside of the house most of the time because no one's gonna be there when they forget to bring the keys.
And last of all I wouldn't even remind you of whats gonna happen to the kitchen...

Women Leads the Economy...

One of the greatest thing about the world these day is more than 60% of the world are made by women...Yeah!
Talk to any well-known marketer in the world, they will tell you women have better buying power than men do. Admit it! For men when does the last time you really went on to shop for even a basic shirt in the shopping center..
Trace back the CCTV and you'll be amaze how sales are made especially on mother's day.
Women love to invest on themselves which most men don't do and some even do it just for the sake of their career.
Without women, no one on earth could open any shopping centers just for men because they'll have nothing to sell and business that are so rare they wouldn't even care hiring any promoters.
From handbags to purse, lingerie to shirt, and  don't forget perfumes that makes women lovely sweet, they nearly made more than half of the building.
80% of the marketing are meant and designed to attract women...

Women Lives Longer than Men..

This came out in ABC news. How depressing for a male like me to heard that..
A female baby that was born in 2012 can expect to live up to 81.2 years while men can expect to live only 76.4 years, 5 years lesser...!
Other than that women are stronger in utero. Males are slower developed physical than females do which makes males more likely to die if they are preemies due to underdeveloped lungs or brain development..
There's more!
Heart disease is the leading killer of both men and women, but men are more likely to develop it—and die from it—as early as their 30s and 40s.
Women, on the other hand, typically develop heart disease 10 years later than men.
They’re protected from it until menopause, since their bodies churn out estrogen, which helps keep arteries strong and flexible, says Dr. Legato in ABC news.
So please cherish your man and stop blaming them for being selfish since they live five years shorter...(haha just joking)

The link to ABCnews:

After I wrote this blog, I love my wife even more not because I've actually lesser time to live but even if I've to left her first I wanted to be the best man ever for her to live by.
Hope you'll feel the same too....

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That's all for today! Happy Mother's day!

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