Hi everybody so we’re back to part 2 for TIP #2 and the rest hope you
enjoyed the first one….
Recommended :
Not Having Enough Sex after Childbirth? (Part 1)
Yet you're gonna love this one..
But if you haven’t seen the first one I’ll recommend you go back to the first
one before you start with this one….=)
TIP #2….Treat her like a virgin
You must have known by now that “sex” has become a super trigger between the
both of you rather than how stimulating it used to be after your baby’s
arrival. It may not make sense to you but the reason is your wife has just
turned virgin (mentally). Like what I said before the body she has now is no
longer the ones she used to had before child birth.
In another words, she has now been mentally put into a
virgin situation where she needs to have sex with this new body of her. Just
like when you dated your wife on her first date, you wouldn’t treat your lady
with the same words like “sex” to put her on the bed right? So treat her like a
virgin that she deserves to be and forget about all the insane sexual violence
you used to.
Solution
- Change the way you use to have sex together, focus more on
pleasure, try stimulating her emotions, give her a nice massage start and re-explore
together once again like what you did before and you’ll realize how the spark
plug really works when you get the hang of it.
TIP #3….Is She Feeling Secure in the marriage after baby?
One thing that no women could have enough is the sense of security
they get from their man especially new mother’s with postpartum blues. They
eventually need more security than any other type of women.
Firstly to adapt their life as new mom and secondly since
they now have temporarily lost their ability to produce wealth they are not
feeling as secure as they. And that’s why women are more reliable to their men
in this period of time.
So as a husband and a new dad the new challenge is to simple
provide them the type of security needed to your women and child in terms of
physical, mental and finance.
Solution
Physical security, what do I mean by that? First thing that every woman would
expect even for a long married couple would be a strong and stiff guy that she
could rely on. I do not mean you have to be as good looking as body builders in
fact most women actually prefers fat guys it all depends on the women’s desire.
But my point here is could you carry her. You could look skinny good but could
you carry her and protect her when she needed you the most. At first I thought
it was just hypocrite too as I read some of the comment on forums online but as
long as I learn to do that our life changes a lot. I think also thinks that the
reasons why women prefer strong guy even without the looks because they just
simply love to be taken care, being carry just like a baby.
The second thing beside physical security is mental security and these we’ve actually
touch on. Women need continuous support and affirmation. So the best ways is
still always works on the trust and tease her like she’s never been with any
men before. Show her how much you love her.
And the last part which is also the most realistic part which most guys would escape
Is their financial situation. Are you giving your wife enough financial
security? Since your wife couldn’t be working for a short period of time its
wise that you could provide her enough financial support for to raise the baby mean
while she’s still in her postpartum period. Diapers, milk and other accessories
could be so costly that it might spent out all your savings.
TIP #4….Do Not Left Her to Sleep with Her Baby Alone without
You
Never ever choose to abandon your wife and baby, either you
join them or u let the baby sleeps alone not mom and baby alone. Biggest mistakes
that most new couple did is to sleep separately letting the mother sleeps alone
with the baby because this is going to kill all her sexual hormone.
Researchers has shown that couples who sleeps together
produces better sexual hormones than couples who decides to sleep separately. Expert
John Dittami have also founded that “Women enjoy male presence psychologically
even though it cost them minutes or even hours of sleep.”
Experts have also review that a woman sleeps better after
sexual intercourse. Besides that sleeping with your spouse will also raises their
oxytocin level which makes your relationship with your lady better and at the
same time lowers the level of cytokines that causes inflammation in the body.
Solution
- The best to solve the problem is to actually teach your baby
to sleeps alone or just move the cot in the room so that both of you could have
the bed together.
Here are the 4Tips that both of us find it very useful hope
it helps…
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